STEP TWO

Stay Calm

How we care for ourselves shapes who we become.

Why Do We Become Reactive?

Change takes time, and learning how to stay calm helps us stay with it.

PAUSE AND REFLECT

  • What situations make us feel most reactive or overwhelmed?

  • What would life look like if we responded more calmly and thoughtfully?

Health and Wellness

Our habits shape our bandwidth. Our habits affect how we feel, think, and respond to life.

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Icon of a glass of water with a small wave on top.

Water

Are we drinking enough water each day?

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A blue icon of a person sleeping in a bed against a black background.

Sleep

Are we getting enough rest to recover physically and emotionally?

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Blue line drawing of a healthy vegetable salad in a bowl, including broccoli, carrots, and lettuce.

Diet

Are we eating in ways that support our energy and mood?

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Outline drawing of a person walking with a heart and a heartbeat line near their head.

Exercise

Are we moving our bodies regularly?

Meditation

Meditation helps us become more present.

And with presence comes freedom.

Free to respond differently to difficult situations.

Free from destructive patterns that no longer serve us.

As our freedom grows, choice becomes easier.

PAUSE AND REFLECT

  • How much time do we spend lost in thought?

  • What might change if we paused before reacting?

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Learning Not to Believe Every Thought

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Becoming Less Reactive

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Creating More Freedom to Choose

Benefits Here and Now

As we become more stable, our bandwidth grows. We may notice:

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More energy.

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A steadier mood.

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Less impulsive reactions.

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Greater patience with ourselves and others.

PAUSE AND REFLECT

  • Where have we already noticed growth?

  • In what area of life would we most like to continue growing?

Look‍ ‍Ahead

As our freedom grows, we have more opportunities to look ahead to where we want to be.

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